The issue that annoys me the most at the moment (ok, most of the time), is mislabeling marriage with responsibility. I am single and I am proud that I am leaving the truth and not a lie.
I know married couples that leave A LOT TO BE DESIRED.
When I was a teenager, my cousin lived in a house close to mine and my siblings and I frequented there quite often. Her neighbour was a fat pot bellied man who I wondered how he got his not so fine, loud mouthed wife to marry him. To my knowledge, he never went to work and he was an incessant flirt. He never chased me sha o. anyway, how could he? Chinwe might have killed him.
His wife was transferred to Abuja, and his kids lived with him in Lagos. He was a poor father. I mean what kind of man will bring his skanks to his house when his kids are there? The truth is that children never forget. And I mean NEVER. Now can that man be said to be responsible? Hell no.
Now I don’t want it to seem like only men are irresponsible, so I will share gist about a woman. She married a man who lives in America, we were still in Unilag then, and she was pregnant and flaunted it all over the place, good for her. She had her child, but that didn’t change her o… oh no, it sure as hell didn’t. A few weeks after the birth of her baby, I heard her talking to her cohorts a.k.a moremi runs chicks, “IKE M NA KO M OKO”(roughly, I am Horny), one of them PAM (she’s dead), replied “KPO TATA HU NA LA GI MBU NO MARIERE(call the small boy who you used to sleep with that is in Mariere hall).” Guess what? She did. She was my course mate, and she was LOUSY as hell, she actually told us she slept with the guy?
Now, because these two clowns wear rings on the fourth finger of their left hands, they are called RESPONSIBLE. This is what I complained about in my post F@%K SOCIETY.
