totally different backgrounds.
One is a very well to do entrepreneur,while the other is a highly paid
accountant. Apart from having me in common(as their friend),they both
say they don't want to end up married to a certain kind of woman.
I find that unconsciously, mothers have a way of running their mouths
and assuming their children are like flies on the walk,hence not
taking note of what they are conversing about.
One friend finds it difficult to commit to a woman and even without
realising it,it's because his mother has,all his life,lamented about
how her life was ruined by her husband's early demise(I wonder how he
was to blame for being murdered). My friend is scared of being killed
and ruining a woman's life.
The other listened to his mother disrespect his father over and over
again with her siblings,complaining about how he does not make enough
money. Sadly,she leaves out the fact that her husband has always been
supportive of all her scoin-scoin,and believe me, all our mothers have
an excess of it.
My mother has her issues as well,and sometimes,it scares me.My
neighbour,a very beautiful woman has a crazy husband who keeps trying
to kill himself and sons who took to marijuana to dull their minds
from all the madness,still puts up a bold face.My friend's mum keeps
killing herself because she's afraid her husband will leave her. This
man has never been faithful.Has cheated on her for 35years,but she
keeps taking his crap because she is in the,so she thinks she is
better off.
I NEVER want to be the Woman who discusses my husband with people.I
NEVER the Woman who rehashes the past at the drop of a hat.I NEVER
want to be the Woman who must put up a bold face when i'm dying
inside.I NEVER want to be the ego masseuse.
I just want to be myself always and keep ignoring the madness of the world.
Does all this mean I'm not ready for marriage??
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the tune without words- and never stops- at all.
Emily Dickinson.
7 comments:
this is deep, i never want to be a woman who discussed=s her husband with others too or keeps silent while dying inside. Its not worth it
Nope dosent mean you're not ready for marriage simply means you're ready for a man who will see things your way.
I never want to be the woman who has something to say and doesn't because she's afraid to speak out...
I never never ever want to be that either. gurl this is sooo real only hope chics today would read this and use it cuz we are mothers of tomorow ainnit?
hmmmm!
serious stuff.
don't mean you're not ready for marriage. just want to go into it with ur head screwed on right.
when i make the decision i want to be ready to take on anything.
i never want my kids to feel nothing good comes from being married.
It means the opposite love, that you are in fact ready for marraige!I couldnt agree more with you...
so now it's time to focus on the woman you want to be.
you are actually good in your thinking. Because a lot of parents dont realize what negativity in marriage does to their children. I have a cousin that has explicitly said she in not interested in marriage bcos from judgin her parents and other farces of marriages, she doesnt see any benefits. She is in her early 30's now. So i doubtit is immaturity talking.
thanks people, I am glad I am not alone.
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