I'm thinking about my life since I turned 20..almost 9 years ago..how
I wish I knew then what I know now.
I regret some things,but not a whole lot.
I learnt the most important thing.I am resilient.When I decide I want
something,I work towards it with my being.
My resilience is my strength..and also my weakness.Like all virtues
can be vices and vice versa.
This post isn't about my resilience per se,it's about my past
relationships.My last real boyfriend broke up with me 6 years ago.I
have floated in and out of many an inconsequential relationship.My
bounce back time has reduced so drastically that I barely feel a thing
when a relationship ends.As much as this is great for my mental
state,it makes most people view me as slutty because they'd usually
whine for a bit after the breakup.For my last real breakup,I was
miserable for almost tired years..I figure not being miserable for too
long is because I over did it(resilience makes one a bit of an
overdoer sha).
I suddenly realised that many of my people are getting
married/engaged,and I feel like I kinda slacked because I was grieving
over a man.And when I got back in the game,I was too lazy to bother to
be patient.
Anyways,I need advice on how to stay patient and get into a relationship.
My problem isn't men.For me,they come a kobo a dozen(all they see is
bum&hips,then run when they discover a brain).I want to know how to
pick the best rice grain when the chaff is so confusing.
I'll also like to know if there's a special pesticide for repelling
pesty ex boyfriends..
I'm waiting anxiously.
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"Hope" is the thing with feathers-that perches in the soul and sings
the tune without words- and never stops- at all.
Emily Dickinson.
10 opinions:
first
yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy
okay now in the field of advice
i don't have alot or any tried and tested words of wisdom but i do know this.
don't do relationships just cuz u r lonely
figure out what you want and i know you know what that is at this point
and chill
but don't go shopping without knowing what you want first you will end up buying a lot of junk
I will stay tuned in here for the answers...cos I need them more than u...
Know what?Don't go on kind of lamenting over what you did back then.You were just being you-as designed by the Master artist...Just be you.Better you are cherished for being you than wanting to get a plastic surgery make-over to impress someone else.You sure will find just the perfect fit whom you blend with soonest...God will keep the pests far away from you
Yeah relationships have it ups and down. Basically, u just gotta try to develop a tough skin and try to stick with it.
well personally, when i feel impatient and its like am gonna blow up on my partner, i just walk away for a while and try to calm myself down.
I just think of relationships like someone swimming in a pool and a couple at times, u gotta come up for air and clear ur head up.
Stick with it gal, u gonna be fine. Happy new year.
repellent for ex boyfriends? My sista, that would be funny if it truly existed.
Happy New Year!
You're a strong woman. With time you will figure everything out. It won't be long now..
Yeah babe, it wont be long. Trust me, i feel you. Check out my blog, you know who i am.
how are you?
Äll they see is bum & hip"(that part made me lol!!!)Just take ur time, patience is the name of the game, there's no rush in life.
I have just tagged you in the 2 truths, 1 lie meme (Hope you haven't been tagged already)
Thanks people for always stopping by and I will take your advices..
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